Benchwarmer

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Summary: Sammie learns to cope with not being a starter on her basketball team, discovering the value of being a supportive teammate.

Synopsis: Sammie, excited about her basketball team's first game, is hopeful to be named a starter but is disappointed when she isn't chosen. Despite her initial sadness, she learns from her coach that being a great player isn't just about starting; it's also about supporting the team in any role. Through encouragement from her coach and friends, Sammie embraces her role, contributes significantly in a crucial game, and realizes the importance of teamwork and positivity, whether on the bench or on the court.

Themes:  The story explores themes of resilience, teamwork, and self-worth beyond personal achievements. It emphasizes the importance of every team member, regardless of their role, and highlights how attitude can influence personal growth and team dynamics. Sammie's journey reflects on dealing with disappointment and finding fulfillment in supporting others, fostering a sense of community and belonging.

Using Benchwarmer in Session

Therapists can use "Benchwarmer" to help children deal with disappointment and find value in roles they initially may not appreciate. Discussing Sammie's feelings and her transformation can help children understand that their worth isn't tied to being in the spotlight. Role-playing can be used to practice responding to similar disappointments constructively. Therapists can also encourage children to explore and acknowledge the importance of different roles within a team, enhancing their empathy and appreciation for diverse contributions.

Discussion Questions:
    1. How did Sammie feel when she wasn't chosen as a starter, and why?
    2. What changed Sammie's perspective about being a starter?
    3. How can being supportive help you and your team?
    4. What does this story teach us about dealing with disappointment?
    5. How can you apply Sammie's experience to your own life or activities?
    6. Why is it important to recognize and value everyone's role in a team?
    7. What are some ways you can support your friends or teammates, even when you're not in the lead?
    8. How did Sammie's attitude towards her role affect her performance and her team's spirit?